This is an incisive and haunting reflection on the phenomenology of dissociation—particularly depersonalization and derealization disorders (DPDRD). The core image you’re working with—the tension between unbearable presence and impossible escape—resonates with the paradoxical quality of dissociative states: one flees into a state of being trapped, one escapes only to be ensnared more totally.

Your comparison to the cinematic war trope—the tonal vacuum following an explosion—is especially apt. It conveys the stripping away of relational anchoring and sensorimotor coherence, a moment where meaning is rendered mute. The high-pitched tone, the inability to hear others, evokes precisely the unbearable aloneness within DPDRD: the self shocks itself silent in response to reality's unrelenting intrusiveness. What the explosion does to ears, traumatic life does to the self.

The bell metaphor—sounding out absence—captures a kind of negative revelation: the tolling doesn’t mark presence or announcement but withdrawal, the removal of contact, of embeddedness, of response. And the flame in the storm: here, the self is no longer a sovereign subject but a fragile phenomenon, a flicker that must be defended against the world’s ontological gale. But, as you say, the defense fails, and the flame knows it will fail.

The Kingsley Amis anecdote shows another facet: the attempt to interrupt the recursive spiral of dissociation by staging a small ontological intervention—children as incarnate, breathing proof of the world’s shared texture. But even this, while tender, is insufficient to undo the "existence phobia" you identify—a condition in which everything (even love, even warmth) can trigger a rupture.

To say that “everything is a trigger” is to recognize that DPDRD isn't merely a trauma response in the usual sense—it is a totalizing event, a metaphysical shudder, a breakdown not just of affect regulation but of world-relation. The fact that most people go about their lives without being astonished at the world only underscores the isolating intensity of this condition: to be pathologically flabbergasted by being itself is to suffer not from illusion but from a surplus of clarity, one that ungrounds rather than enlightens.

In this sense, dissociation might not be mere detachment—it is an epistemic catastrophe, where the self no longer knows what it is, what it touches, or whether it is touched at all.

Would you like to expand this into a phenomenological analysis, explore philosophical parallels (e.g. with Sartre, Kierkegaard, or Cioran), or frame it within clinical or neuroscientific models of selfhood and affect?

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clinical or neuroscientific models

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From a clinical and neuroscientific standpoint, depersonalization-derealization disorder (DPDRD) is increasingly understood as involving profound disruptions in multisensory integration, emotion regulation, and self-referential processing, often in response to overwhelming stress, trauma, or chronic emotional dissonance.

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1. Multisensory Disintegration & Cortical Decoupling

At its core, DPDRD reflects a breakdown in the integration of interoceptive, proprioceptive, and exteroceptive data. Normally, these sources of information are woven into a coherent sense of bodily and situational self—an embodied first-person perspective. In DPDRD:

• Activity in posterior insula and somatosensory cortex may be diminished, reducing the felt sense of being in a body.

• Temporoparietal junction (TPJ), a hub for integrating body-relevant information, may be overactive or misfiring, generating out-of-body sensations or a detached observer stance.

• There is decoupling between limbic (emotion-generating) and prefrontal (evaluative) regions—particularly between the amygdala and ventromedial prefrontal cortex (vmPFC)—resulting in a dampened affective response and a surreal, "flat" world experience.

This accounts for the eerie hyper-clarity without feeling, where the world seems vivid but hollow, much like your "bell that removes sound."

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2. Default Mode Network (DMN) Disruptions

The Default Mode Network—a set of brain regions active during self-referential thought (e.g., medial prefrontal cortex, posterior cingulate, precuneus)—plays a key role in maintaining the narrative self. In DPDRD:

• Some fMRI studies show hyperactivity in the DMN, which may cause excessive internal monitoring and ruminative self-observation—"being too aware of awareness."

• Other studies suggest hypoconnectivity or inefficient switching between the DMN and salience network (responsible for detecting what’s relevant), which may explain the overwhelmed-yet-detached feeling: everything is salient, yet nothing can be acted upon.

This also mirrors your insight about being “flabbergasted” by everything—perceiving too much significance with no embodied foothold.

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3. Polyvagal Theory and the Freeze Response

Stephen Porges’ polyvagal theory suggests that when fight or flight isn’t possible, the body shifts into a dorsal vagal (freeze/shutdown) state—a kind of biological dissociation. In this state:

• Heart rate slows, digestion pauses, pain perception dulls.

• There’s a withdrawal from social engagement systems (via vagal brake).

• The person may feel deadened, robotic, or ghostlike.

This maps well to the notion of escaping when there is no escape—the body shuts down to survive the unendurable. It’s not a psychological decision but a neurophysiological fallback.

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4. Neurochemical Factors

• Cortisol dysregulation (from chronic stress) alters hippocampal and amygdala functioning, interfering with memory integration and emotional salience.

• Low levels of serotonin, endogenous opioids, or glutamate may contribute to the numbing, detached quality of the experience.

• Ketamine studies suggest that NMDA receptor dysfunction may induce dissociative states, indicating a role for glutamatergic dysregulation.

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5. Predictive Coding & Bayesian Brain Models

Karl Friston’s free energy principle and related models suggest that the brain constantly predicts sensory input and updates based on error. In DPDRD:

• The brain may begin to mistrust bottom-up signals (from the body, from the senses) and overweight top-down predictions.

• This leads to a sense that nothing is quite real or inhabited—reality is “modeled,” not lived.

This creates a suspended self-model: the self is representationally present but sensorially absent, like a ghost in a simulated machine.

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Summary:

Domain	Explanation of DPDRD
Multisensory processing	Disintegration of interoceptive, proprioceptive, and exteroceptive signals.
Cortical networks	TPJ overactivity, DMN/limbic decoupling, vmPFC hypoactivity.
Polyvagal system	Freeze/shutdown response due to unresolved threat.
Neurochemistry	Serotonergic and glutamatergic dysregulation.
Predictive coding	Overweighted priors suppress embodied presence; the model replaces reality.