Developmental trauma is a more theoretically-driven construct, which refers to a potentially traumatic configuration of the relational field between the child and his or her caregivers, characterized by a lack of emotional reciprocity and a disavowal of the child’s affective needs (Bromberg, 2013). In developmental trauma, the child’s affective needs are disowned and entirely subdued by parental demands, desires, conflicts, fears and projections (Borgogno, 2007). Whether developmental trauma does or does not include overt material neglect and abuse of the child, it always embraces a series of negative child-caregiver interactions such as emotional neglect, intense role-reversal, or parental behaviors directed at the psychological domination of the child (Schimmenti, 2012). This definition of developmental trauma partially overlaps with other psychoanalytic constructs related to childhood trauma such as “cumulative trauma” (Khan, 1963) or “strain trauma” (Kris, 1955). These constructs highlight the accumulation of frustrating tendencies that derive from a longstanding external noxious force (especially a disturbance in the mother’s role as a protective shield), which constantly pressures the child to maintain defenses against overwhelming anxiety and that becomes in itself traumatic. However, our way of conceiving developmental trauma is more in line with Ferenczi’s (1929) understanding of the unwelcome child and Shengold’s (1989) concept of soul murder, where particular attention is given to the dysfunctional affective climate in which the child grows up and its polarization of the parent’s rather than the child’s needs. In fact, the focus here is on parental disavowal and denial of parts of the child’s existence, in particular those parts which go beyond the parental urges, wishes, and projections. In other words, it is as if the parents do not recognize a psychological existence of the child (Schimmenti, 2013), and thus they may be impersonal and affectionless in caregiving (Winnicott, 1971); or they may use the child as an “evacuatory object”, i.e. as a garbage can of their disturbed mental states (Shengold, 1989); or they may even violently introduce mental content into the child that can satisfy at a conscious or unconscious level their own needs, to the detriment of the child’s natural development...As Shengold (1989, p. 24) elegantly stated, “our identity depends initially on good parental care and good parental caring—on the transmitted feeling that it is good to be here”, while the intimate affective climate of developmental trauma may represent the exact opposite condition, such as “it is no good that you are here; you are only a problem” (Schimmenti, 2012, p. 198)
"To never forget your own insignificance. To never get used to the unspeakable violence and the vulgar disparity of life around you. To seek joy in the saddest places...To never simplify what is complicated or complicate what is simple. To respect strength, never power. Above all, to watch. To try and understand. To never look away and never, never, to forget." ~ Arundhati Roy
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